You don't have to dress up for Halloween this year because you were already a ghost all year.
What's ghosting? How does ghosting even impact your finances?
"If you own a smartphone, you're carrying a 24-7 singles bar in your pocket." -- Aziz Ansari
First off, what's ghosting? According to the Urban Dictionary:
"The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just 'get the hint' and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested. Ghosting is not specific to a certain gender and is closely related to the subject's maturity and communication skills. Many attempt to justify ghosting as a way to cease dating the ghostee without hurting their feelings, but it in fact proves the subject is thinking more of themselves, as ghosting often creates more confusion for the ghostee than if the subject kindly stated how he/she feels."
This video goes deep into ghosting on this very SPECIAL HALLOWEEN EDITION of Studenomics TV. We share personal stories on how we've been on both ends of the spectrum. We also show you exactly how to react when you get ghosted. Don't worry because it's not the end of the world. This is just dating in 2016.
What's in here?
00:00 - 1:42.. The boys introduce the topic of ghosting along with an official introduction to the world of ghosting. We also talk about why ghosting ties into your money.
1:43 - 3:05. Ghosting's getting out of control. The guys talk about why it's just too easy to ghost these days.
3:06 - 4:51. Why do people ghost? Trevor talks about how he got ghosted recently and how he reacted. You might cry. Martin then shares a pretty funny ghosting story.
4:52 - 5:50. Martin tells you why you're always getting ghosted.
5:51 - 8:43. Martin explains the THREE BEST STRATEGIES for reacting to getting ghosted. You need to STOP doing this one thing that Martion mentions ASAP.
8:44 - 9:55. Trevor shares a hilarious story of how he called out a girl after getting ghosted.
9:56 - 11:02. When's it okay to ghost? There's one occasion.
If you want to avoid the friend zone, you need to read my book, "I Like You as a Friend."
"I don’t have a girlfriend. But I do know a woman who’d be mad at me for saying that." -- Mitch Hedberg